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Preventing Burnout Over the Holidays

As the holiday season approaches, many people will shift their focus towards giving and caring for others. Many people feel overwhelmed and stressed, struggling with their personal health goals. Caring for yourself and spending time with loved ones should be the number one priority during the holiday season! Let’s talk about it.

What is Burnout?

Burnout may feel like being emotionally, physically, and mentally worn out. It often happens when stress builds up over time, especially in high-pressure jobs or when you have too many responsibilities. If you’re feeling burned out, you might notice that you’re constantly tired, irritable, or having trouble sleeping. You may also find it hard to stay focused or remember things, and you could even experience physical issues like headaches or stomach problems.

If burnout isn’t dealt with, it can lead to more serious mental health challenges like anxiety or depression. You might start feeling detached from your work and personal relationships, which can make you feel lonely. It’s really important to recognize the early signs of burnout and take action. This can include practicing self-care, reaching out for support, and possibly changing your workload or daily routines to help manage stress. Taking these steps can make a big difference in both your work life and your overall well-being.

What Holiday Stressors Can Look Like

Holidays can be a joyful time, but they often come with stressors that impact our bodies and nervous systems. 

  1. The pressure to find perfect gifts can lead to anxiety, while packed schedules might result in fatigue. The constant rush can trigger headaches or muscle tension.
  2. Financial worries can elevate stress levels, affecting sleep patterns, digestion, pain levels, and more. 
  3. Crowded gatherings might overwhelm you, causing sensory overload and further stress.

It’s important to recognize these signs and find ways to balance the festivities with self-care.

Preventing Burnout Over the Holidays

To navigate this busy period more smoothly and maintain your well-being, consider these strategies:

1. Set Realistic Expectations

Often, we pressure ourselves to create the "perfect" holiday experience, which can lead to stress. Instead, focus on what truly matters: spending quality time with loved ones. Accept that not everything has to be flawless and prioritize activities that bring you joy rather than stress. Make a list of “must-dos” and allow flexibility for everything else. Physiologically, this means better cortisol regulation and less stress overall.

2. Prioritize Sleep

Amidst holiday preparations, it’s easy to stay up past our usual bedtime chipping away at work obligations and/or holiday activities. Maintain a healthy bedtime routine that can include reading, exercising, or a relaxing bath. Good quality sleep helps maintain your energy levels and mood, making it easier to handle stress.

3. Use Your Health Benefits/Schedule Wellness Appointments

Make sure to stay in good health during this demanding season by booking in with your health care team — therapist or counselor, naturopathic doctor, massage therapist, etc. Consider booking a massage or acupuncture session to relieve physical tension and promote relaxation. Additionally, a nutritional consultation may help you make healthier food choices amidst holiday indulgence. By proactively organizing these wellness appointments, you can create a supportive framework that helps you navigate the holiday season with greater ease and joy.

4. Limit Commitments, with Intention

It’s tempting to say yes to every invitation, but overcommitting can lead to exhaustion. Be selective about the events you attend and prioritize those that bring you joy. Politely decline or propose alternative, less stressful interactions, such as a casual coffee meet-up instead of a large party.

5. Stay Connected

At the same time, the holidays can sometimes feel isolating, especially if loved ones are far away. Make an effort to connect with family and friends who enrich your life, be it through phone calls, video chats, or letters. These interactions can boost your mood and remind you of the support network you have.

By incorporating these strategies, you can create a more relaxed and enjoyable holiday experience. Remember that the essence of the holidays lies in connection, joy, and gratitude, not in perfection or excess.

In Summary

The holiday season, often filled with festivities and joy, can also bring about stress and disruption to one’s health routine. However, maintaining balance and staying on track with health goals is achievable with a few mindful strategies: Prioritizing self-care is essential; ensure you get adequate sleep, stay hydrated, and maintain a nutritious diet amidst the indulgences. Incorporating regular physical activity, whether through a brisk walk or a dance session, can help alleviate stress and boost endorphins. Mindfulness practices, such as meditation or yoga, can also aid in maintaining mental wellness. It’s important to set realistic expectations and allow yourself some flexibility. By planning ahead, such as preparing healthy meals in advance, booking appointments with your health team, and setting boundaries for commitments, you can navigate the holidays more smoothly. Ultimately, by supporting your body and mind with these practices, you can emerge into the new year feeling balanced and ready to continue pursuing your health objectives.

Holiday Mayhem

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Merry Stress Management

We’ve all been there. You’re standing in line at a crowded shopping mall, there aren’t enough cashiers, and the line is moving unbelievably slow. It took more than 15 minutes to find a parking spot and now you’re running late but it’s okay because the sound system is blaring Mariah Carey’s “All I want for Christmas is you,” right?

For many, the winter holidays mark a festive but also difficult time. It seems like everything demands our attention. Work deadlines to end off the year, pressure to buy well-received gifts, financial stress, unwanted conversations with family and not to mention the regular regimen of eating healthy and exercising. It’s a unique time because after the holiday season, this stress will go away. It’s the same stress that is also a predictable stress that we have the power to manage. In a survey conducted by Healthline in 2015, 62% of people surveyed reported elevated stress levels during the holidays, while 10% reported no stress whatsoever. Great for that 10%, but what can the majority do to thrive this holiday season?

…62% of people surveyed reported elevated stress levels during the holidays…

1. Making a list, checking it twice

Whether you are naughty or nice, make a list of what needs to be done. By writing it down you effectively declutter your mind and ensures that you don’t forget key tasks. Having your to-do list swirl around in your head will inevitably ensure that random tasks will pop up at the wrong time when you are already doing a million things or when you’re trying to catch some z’s. While pen and paper works the best, you can also use a notes app on your smartphone.

it’s perfectly okay to not be in the Christmas spirit.

2. Channel kind Grinch vibes

The Grinch vibe is to say no. Despite what you are told, it’s perfectly okay to not be in the Christmas spirit. In plain terms, you can say no to obligations/responsibilities. Yes, it is possible to say no from a kind place, unlike the Grinch. Adding obligations to your plate might seems like a good idea to channel the holiday/Christmas spirit, however the spirit should not be draining you or stop you from doing the things that you truly enjoy. This time more than any other time you should protect your valuable time and energy.

Ways to say no:

  • “Thank you for thinking of me. I have this project that I am working on right now.”
  • “I am fully committed to doing this task before I can take on anything else.”
  • “Thank you for inviting me, unfortunately I can’t make it out to the Christmas party this year.”

3. Family time

If it’s uncomfortable to be around family because you may be avoiding some members and/or conversations, then keep in mind that the holidays are a time for families to get together and enjoy each other’s company. Stick to activities that you can jointly enjoy and/or areas of conversation that are of interest to both parties. Be mindful of your words and avoid combative language. Keep in mind that you can have a conversation someone without having the same perspective. Accept that you may not change the other person’s mind which will ease the tension in conversation. When all else fails, you can end a conversation before you see it turning hostile and change the topic to something you do agree upon.

For some people the holidays mark a sad time when there may be missing family members who have passed away. During this time, gift yourself some TLC without isolating yourself. While you don’t have to force yourself to be happy, you can take a walk, get some air, acknowledge your grief and talk to a trusted friend or family member.

4. Deck the halls with self care

Because the holiday season requires us to take on more responsibility than usual, our brain goes into overdrive. It may be acceptable for us to let go of personal health habits to complete other activities (ex: skipping exercise because of late working hours). Your daily routine is how you take care of your mind and body. It may include things such as physical activity, a cup of tea, journaling, getting to bed at a decent hour. Does it make sense to let go of your routine during the most stressful time of year? During the holidays you can keep your mental and physical stability by continuing your self care routine. Things may shift around a bit and you may skip some days but don’t toss your routine out of the window completely.

5. Presents under the tree

Are you also a well-deserving? YES! Be kind to yourself and give yourself a gift every day!

Self care gift ideas:
  • Take some time off of work to do something you enjoy
  • Sleep in for one day
  • Learn something new (ex: new recipe, new way to wrap presents, etc.)
  • Reminisce about good memories from the past year
  • Reflect on the passing year and make some goals for next year
  • Laugh! Watch a comedy show
  • Take advantage of your health benefits before the year ends

Stress around the holidays can come out in different ways. For some it can be difficulty concentrating, difficulty making decisions, feeling angry, irritable or out of control, experiencing headaches, poor energy, or body aches and pains. Pay attention to your stress signals and take care of yourself.

Happy Holidays!

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